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Dee's avatar

I do have to express a concern that the idea that only those who medically transition are “real” and the rest are just navel gazing is part of what encourages young people caught up in this social contagion to medicalize, in order to prove their “validity”. A more useful way to characterize this might be that it’s difficult to know for certain what is causing the desire to be a different sex, and whether it will persist, and whether you are a person who is able to make peace with your own sex and anatomy. Only through therapy and experimenting with different ways of living and presenting over a period of years can someone make that decision, and there is no shame in trying something out but ultimately deciding it’s not right for you. Making peace with your body without surgery should always be the desired outcome if possible.

This gives the Demi Levatos of the world a graceful way out of internet-induced identities and hopefully helps to counter some of the cultish aspects of the current transgender activist community, while respecting the rights of adults to live as they please.

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Astrid Renfrojd's avatar

I am so astounded that someone could believe transgender people don't experience dysphoria, like, huh??? Before transition I experienced dysphoria over the minute difference in my facial structure and my facial hair a hell of a lot more than over my banana, I do agree that there should be distinctions between transexual and transgender though, I would probably prefer to use transgender day-to-day because that desribes all that I'd like most people to know about me, and transexual with doctors and romantic&/|sexual partners

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